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Journey To Privacy

It wasn't so long ago that I decided to stop unconsciously "whoring" myself over the internet. I am using the word "whoring" since it became apparent to me that I have been making my photos and "private" information available on world wide web's inter-galactic force of social networking. But before all you "internet critics" and "anti-whoring" animals judge me, allow me to defend myself by saying that it was all "unconsciously" made--it was an act I was not aware of until some foolish stalker on the net used my name and my information to indulge his passion for ignorance (and revenge maybe) over me. Enemies. Where could they be? They are there, sitting on a not-so-comfortable chair in their living room or empty bedroom--seemingly drooling over my 'websites' in the hopes of crushing my not-so-happy life apart. Well, who's laughing now?

(Breathe sheena, breathe) Okay, so as I have mentioned earlier and as obvious with the title, I have started my journey to privacy just weeks ago. I have set all my photos private and deleted any possible information that "my enemies" may possibly use against me or harm me in the near future. I have scoured over my emails (yes, emails.. I have multiple of them--all for certain purposes) for file hosts, social networking sites and other unnecessary websites or databases that I may have signed up for during my technologically-immature days. Then BOOM! over a dozen of them popped in the open misery, I could barely imagine how stupid(?) I was to make myself available with just a click away. My my. As a matter of fact, I think all these dated back to the time where I was not aware of the threat of these websites. Tsk tsk.

Thanks to Alaskan Governor Sarah Palin's not-so-long-ago yahoomail scandal that I bumped my head to the consequences that awaits me. That is, add that to the recent web-wide catastrophe that I encountered recently. Ugh. To think, I have not harmed anybody for goodness sake. Oh well, technology is the "freshest" medium for revenge, they say. Have you heard of the university student who posted all the names of the women whom her "cheating" boyfriend slept with? Holy moley. So you guys/gals better be careful with all this "whoring" thingy that you've got going. It may appear to be harmless at first, but you'll never know who's got your website bookmarked on his or her "gateway to stalking the stalkable."

So there you go, I deleted the unnecessary databases I signed up for. I didn't realize "deleting" one's account for a social networking site would take days. Or that deleting all your photos could be as easy as one, two, three. Or that making your photos "completely secure and efficiently available" would cost you around $10/month. Or that it was kind of disheartening to delete photos which you have saved on that website for years and have had massive number of comments from your contacts. Or that I am making this post only to again divulge information about myself. But what can I say? I love to blog. I love to write. This is passion people, not plain whoring, to say the least.

And so as I am about to end this rant with regard to my privacy-inclined walk, I am off to keeping one website alone (or make that two, my blog should be retained. I would forever regret it if I delete my BLOGS "six of them to be exact"). It would also be a shame if I deprive myself from expressing through words, as Ate Charity mentioned "Not everyone can write." So I must write, hoping that my works won't be stolen or I'll have to make a post about plagiarism for that instance. And of course, I must post pictures exclusively for those whom I care about. I can't possibly tag along with me a giant photo album or constantly ship photos to my family in Bukidnon. Or keep them on email and forward to my "trusted friends"--that is just so a decade ago. I also have my five cents allocated for 21st century and I'm loving it.

Good thing multiply's photo database is free. Heck the "pixel" thingy or the changes it will make on the file size. All I want is just to share great moments that I have captured on film (or on the coolness of the advent of gadgets). Guh, there you go folks, as most of you may have noticed, my photos are set on private either deleted (e.g. Myspace, Facebook, Friendster, hi5, Tagged, Photobucket to name a few..I told you I had more than a dozen.) Hence, these are available via my MULTIPLY page, while some of it--pictures that I'd write about--will be posted on my carefully layouted blogspot (just google for the link if you're so eager to know). Why multiply? I am relentlessly tired checking an array of websites and having them all saved on my toolbar—you know, checking for updates and all. I figured that it would hassle-free to just lead my friends and my family to a powerful single database (which I like to use) and set everything accessible ONLY to those whom I want to stalk me. *winks*

I am still battling with the reality that my life will never be private (of course sheen, you're publicly active! what do you expect?) tsk, at least I tried though. And if one day, my accounts will be hacked, you'll know that I tried to warn myself, I just never learned. ;p OR.. OR.. The stalker and the enemies just couldn’t help themselves and—but oh please, have mercy on me. :(

Does this mean I should delete everything online so I would be unhackable? *UGGGGHHH!*

P.S. I’ll be expecting negative comments. Or silence. Or if you’re kind enough, something to cheer me up about this post. This is a mark towards my journey to privacy. For crying out loud, I want to leave some room for myself. I deserve that. My birthday’s on soon. *yeah baby*

Photo retrieved from: Daniel J. Solove's The Privacy Paradox

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Best Political Blog for Blogger's Choice Awards

No biases here. Hehe. (Shhhh..) Please vote for Heherson Juego a.k.a Splice and Dice in Blogger's Choice Awards 2008. I'm really new with this blog voting thingy, but the moment I saw badges (like this icon next to this paragraph) on other blogs, I just knew his blog deserves to be a part or on top spot of blogosphere's elite or so-called community. Please do. Just click on the Blogger's Choice Awards icon below.

My site was nominated for Best Political Blog!


Need to be convinced first?
Read his posts and be amazed. ^__^
He's worth it.


P.S. I nominated the blog as:
1. Best Blog Design, (it's neat and I personally witnessed his effort in layouting his blog for it to be user or visitor friendly)
2. Best Blog of All Time, (browse over the blog and decide for yourself)
3. Best Hobby Blog, (repeat comment on #2)
4. Best Political Blog. (oh yes, definitely.)

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

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Fluff Friends: With A Touch Of Art

I always wanted a pet, a dog. Or a piglet. Either of the two would serve me good. But my mom never wanted one and always reminded me of my little sister who loves to embrace almost anything or anyone that comes to her way, and my mom fears that she might get "overwhelmed" if we had a pet in the house. Now that I live in a 3rd floor unit, it's impossible to get one still, the building owner just won't allow it, and my hectic work schedule would definitely protest.

And so here I am, alone with my computer again. I've taken into consideration a parrot, perhaps, or a turtle, or a rabbit. But similar to that of my dream of having my very own dino, I bet it would break the seas to have it realized. Nevertheless, I have compensated this "need" of having a pet through facebook. This application called Fluff Friends. Check my pet/s.

I was living my dream. Finally, I got a pet. I named him/her/it Oinky (so obvious dear) the Piggu. I have the power to feed it, pet it and even race it with other fluffs. I can also change habitats through Fluff Art. Everything seemed to go perfectly well, I indluged into crafting what I believed was an art, with my pet/s on it. But then just recently, I found these. The Fluff Arts of other facebook users. And then I got frustrated. Daym, they're good. (Note: All these are made out of the items that are only sold on the fluff shop. Creativity, daym.)

Mind you guys, I have skimmed through all the artworks and I'm still in Page 5.
I bet there's more to be amazed of in the other pages.

This one here is my favorite.

This one's cute.

This one surely is a craft.

This one's got a great theme.

While this one's simple but catchy.

And this one's really elegant.

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The Risk Taker Test

Okay, so I've just taken the "heart color test" or whatever you want to call it, then I found this list in Blogthings.com and since the night is a bit boring waiting for my housemate to finally watch Fool's Gold with me, I felt like it would be great to waste my time answering "web-tests-which-are-certainly-not-valuable." Perhaps it would be cool to refute the questions before posting the widget, so here it goes. (update: Can't refute them, blogger won't allow. Huhu)

  1. You often arrive:
  2. If you hated your job, you would:
  3. You think gambling is:
  4. Are you willing to take on a lot of debt - even if there's a chance you couldn't pay it back?
  5. Would you like to travel to an underdeveloped country?
  6. Have you ever gone whitewater rafting, bungee jumping, snowboarding, or scuba diving?
  7. Getting lost in an unfamiliar place is:
  8. Your interests:
  9. Do you do crazy things just for the fun of them?
  10. Would you say that you would try anything once?
And the results:


Your Risk Taking Level: Medium-High



You're not afraid of a little (or a lot) of risk.

In fact, you pretty much live to take chances.

Consequences be damned, you are willing to go for it.

And if it doesn't work out, at least people can't say you didn't try!

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What Color Heart Do You Have?

Allow me to highlight the results which are true--I think? Err, found this widget on Cory's friendster profile haha, the curious me ever. Oh well, purple heart? What the..

Your Heart Is Purple



For you, love is about establishing
and developing a deep connection. (so true!!)


If it's true love, it brings you more wisdom and inner strength. (check)

Your flirting style: Sincere (wicked)

Your lucky first date:
An afternoon at a tea house (nah uh)


Your dream lover: Is both
thoughtful and expressive
(precisely!)


What you bring to relationships:
Understanding (and so much more!! right babe?)

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Pocket Emo Presents Chubiboy

Hehe, I can't help myself from laughing after I found this application embedded in my younger brother's friendster profile. This came along with Merkko's fascinating collection of Dota AllStars heroes as his background image. Cool. Hehe, geez. I so love it when I visit my siblings' friendster profiles because I also bump on good stuff. I mean, good applications. Funny, cute, weird and of course interesting works of art from dedicated web application developers. Check this out: the Emo (courtesy of Mindistortion)who hates to do anything that is normal. Geez, I directly visited the website and the interface is absolutely cool. A really talented web developer. Kudos to whoever you are. Anyway, my boyfriend ain't so fond of emo/s that he/we played along with this widget. Hmm, in my own view, his rockstar personality looks exactly as follows:


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Toughest Heavy Drunkards

In my own assessment, I think the city with the most "drunkards" are found in Malaybalay, Bukidnon. I myself can attest to that since I used to be a part of that infamous legacy in our town. Well, I think most tourists who have seen the depths of the "city inside the forest" can second my motion. I remember the time when Xtra Challenge made their show in our place. They had this activity where a celebrity had to leave her bag of bread on the sidewalk for a while to read some piece of paper. Then after a little while, in that oozingly hot lunchtime, a drunk man took the bag of bread and just passed by the celebrity laughing. Wahaha. My gosh.

Anywie, I also believe that the city has the toughest of all tough when it comes to drinking. Men, women, young or old--they're all good in tagay and they can stay 24 hours drinking and not getting drunk--they literally don't choose what time of the day to drink. Alcohol tolerance. Tsk tsk. And oh, the people there don't even choose what beverage to drink as they take in what is served and what's even better, most of them know how to mix drinks of any kind (cool eh?). Tourists, if you are looking for friendly and attractive heavy drinkers to match up that party animal inside you, visit Malaybalay and you'll see the light of Jah. Haha.

But know what? I also think the whole province-Bukidnon--itself can hold that title. Trust me, folks there are outstanding.